Not the same thing, unless you like a drink and company in your baths.

[She smirks up at him. There isn't a man in Tess's life who hasn't been subjected to this bullshit at one point or another, and few people have done much to dissuade her.]

I respect you because you stand up to me, you know. But chasing after me for a kid's business? Not such a great look on you.