Well, we're not talking about you, we're talking about Joel.

[And her, for once, though she does not like being dragged into the deep end of this topic. It's happened so many times lately, this nonsense where she tries to talk about how she feels about something and it turns into this fucked up game where she has to prove she's justified in having feelings about her own problems. It drives her insane.]

I can't lay out ten years of a relationship just like that.